Don’t you think we humans have all kinds of peculiar qualities??
One such quality is that we are never content with anything in life. We always crave for better!! Everything better than the present is worth all the sacrifices…
A wonderful job, big bungalow, fancy car and a hell lot of money.. But there is always that insect inside us that wants more!!! And you could very well justify it this way..
Need for change: Oh yes!! Who doesn’t like changes?? We hate eating the same food daily so how can we live a life time stagnant at a position. We set up huge goals and strive to reach them..
Comparing with others: Your friend has a fancy phone or a car.. Don’t you want to possess one or may be something more than that?? We always want to shine in the crowd right??
Social Influence : Our society too respects only the powerful and influential people. We love to please others and gain attention by doing something big.
Aren’t all these reasons enough to keep you away from being content..??
If your answer is yes and you still believe that they are worth all your sacrifices, then I must tell you, you have done quite well in screwing up your life by attaching your happiness and pleasure to your materialistic needs.
I know it’s hard to believe. You might think that being content is the end of everything. Competing is the only thing that inspires you to move forward, right??
But on a different note, don’t you think changes also reflect of dissatisfaction towards our everyday life. By comparing ourselves with others, we turn a blind eye towards our positive aspects as well. And also doing something only to please others will never result in your true happiness.
Most of the times, it’s better to be content with whatever you have. Every bit of that “more” you want may come at a huge price which we tend to overlook.
The secret of contentment is to have realistic goals. Achieving only those will keep us away from disappointment and regret. Sometimes, to achieve more we constrain ourselves. Instead, live the present moment and do whatever you want to do as an individual.
Everything you’ve written is just so true. Great work. 👌👍
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Thank a lot Deboleena!!
This is what we see everyday right..??
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Absolutely and reading it made me realise I do them too sometimes. We see them everyday and sometimes we are one of them.
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Yes!! Sometimes we become too much conscious of our popularity too..
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Absolutely
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I think of reposting this, the contain is so fine and I’m lovin it. Can I?
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Of course you can!!!
That will be my pleasure.. ☺👍
Thank you..
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So true..it is that insect inside us that make us different! loved the quote too.. nice post, ma’am!!
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Thanks a lot Sir!! 😛👍
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hahaha….my pleasure, m…m
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No.. Not again.. 😛😛 😂
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Contentment is the key to a happy and peaceful mind . Well written Mrudula 👍
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Thank you!!! 😀😀
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Welcome Mrudula. ☺
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This is the perfect way to live a happy life…lovely write up Mrudula 🙂
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Thank you Ruchi.. ☺
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Great piece, be contented and not covetous.
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Thank you Sarah!! ☺
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You are welcome.
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You are so great with words what you have written is indeed true.
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Thanks a lot!! 😀😀
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if i say like ” desire is humanly and run behind it, grab it, and explore more and more opportunities”
will you be contented with my words..can you agree to me any more as I deviated from your post..?
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I totally agree with you..and I think you are not deviated from the content. I would just like to add one thing..those desires and opportunities must be realistic and not depending on what others think or aimed at pleasing them. In that way we will not regret anything or end up disappointed. In the end your satisfaction is what matters the most…☺☺
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Mrudula..WE ARE ALL HUMANE, AND NEVER COULD WE BE THE SO CALLED IDEAL CREATURES. any way let us try to make ourself satisfied atleast
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Yes.. We are never ideal and I don’t expect others to be so too.. But all I’m saying is by increasing our desires we enter a never ending cycle and increase the risk of disappointment. Instead managing them properly will lead to our happiness.
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a cycle of chain reaction as I posted today
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Ha yes… Thought provoking one.. The only problem is that we fail to recognise the point when we actually turn greedy..
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True… but we all have shades or layers of it. Some more than others. While it is the ideal thing to do or be… it’s easier said than done, don’t you think? We always want more. But yep gotto train our souls to accept what is and be content. Like they say ‘there is enough for a man’s need, but not enough for his greed.’
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Right!! It’s a bit difficult in practice..
To be happy, me must accept things the way they are. Sometimes it the right thing to do. Whenever I try to settle for the content part, its worth it!!
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great wisdom mrudula………….nicely written..
shreyans
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Thank you Shreyans.. ☺
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I have tagged you to do this post. I hope you enjoy doing this 😀
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I have nominated you for the Sunshine Blogger Awars. Hope you like it 🙂 ❤
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Was a great read. I’m currently writing a book on quite similar themes. Particularly how gratitude is the only true route to lasting happiness. Eli
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That’s great to hear!
Thanks Eli! ☺
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It’s my pleasure. Do stay in touch 🙂
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Sure..!! ☺
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Amazing! 🙂
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Perhaps…Less is more!!
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Yes.. It sure is… ☺
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